Book #4: 10 Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew

This was another book given to me by Johnathan’s teacher to read. I have to admit this is one of the greatest informative, easy to understand, and enjoyable books to read. In 2004 Ellen Notbohm wrote an article about what Autistic kids want people to know. She never expected the overwhelming response from people. So many autism parents and groups related to everything she said, but so did ‘support groups for chronic pain, obesity, assistance dogs, inner ear disorders, home schoolers, church educators, a knitting circle - and a chocolate company.’ If given the opportunity I would give this book to everyone who ever comes in contact with Johnathan. I feel sharing these Ten Things might encourage more to read this book and perhaps give you a little insight into the world of an Autistic child.

Tens Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew

1. I am first and foremost a child. Have autism. I am not primarily “autistic”

2. My sensory perceptions are disordered.

3. Please remember to distinguish between won’t (I choose not to) and can’t (I am not able to).

4. I am a concrete thinker. This means I interpret language very literally.

5. Please be patient with my limited vocabulary.

6. Because language is so difficult for me, I am very visually oriented.

7. Please focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can’t do.

8. Help me with social interactions.

9. Try to identify what triggers my meltdowns.

10. If you are a family member, please love me unconditionally

And the most important word: PATIENCE.

4 ½ out of 5 stars - Please if you get a chance please take time to read this book. Not only for all autistic kids but also for yourself. This book truly can open your eyes and better your relationships and understanding of others.

Book # 3 What Is A Mother

Compiled by Lee Parr McGarth & Joan Scobey

This book belonged to Jim’s grandmother, Emma who passed away last summer. She gave me this book a few years ago. An interesting fact is at her funeral I read a poem called “What Is a Mother.” This book contains the responses of children from various schools in New York and Texas as to “What is a Mother.” Compiled in 1968 it was interesting to see how many responses talked about the mother being in the home. The responses ranged from very sweet to some seemed kind of rude. I noticed how many of the names were traditional, older names not often used now.

Some of my favorites were:

Who is a mother? She knows what is important. That is why God asked them to be a mother.

- Lizann

I think we are lucky to have a mother of our own. I love my mother so much I can keep saying it for the rest of the day.

- Love, Hazel

Just what is a mother? A mother is indescribable

- Doug

2 out of 5 stars - While this is a cute book I didn't overly enjoy it. I think it reflects a lot how mothers were viewed at that time in America though.